Fantasy can play a healthy role in keeping a couple's love life from getting stale. David Shade, the author of a book about Female Sexuality, has affirmed this in an email newsletter he sends to me regularly. Costumes can play a big part in the role-playing games that enable couples to spice up their love lives. Anytime Costumes sells costumes that allow women to dress up as nurses, schoolgirls, cowgirls, cops, cave women, pirate wenches, Playboy bunnies, Indian princesses, saloon girls and more. For their sexy Halloween costumes, click here.
SexyCostumes.com is another source of such costumes. Anyone who ever saw Carrie Fisher dancing around in front of Jabba the Hut in one of the Star Wars movie might conceivably want to see his woman wearing the Sexy Princess Leia slave costume sold by the company. (One of the creepiest aspects of that part of Star Wars was the one in which Jabba's big tongue stuck out and licked Princess Leia. But if it was your tongue, it wouldn't be creepy; maybe it would even be kinky!)
Most of the sites selling sexy costumes seem to focuse primarily on women, but of course, men can also dress up as cops, cowboys, etc. Just ask The Village People (who unfortunately seem to have been gay).
BDSM is the abbreviation for "bondage, dominance and sadomasochism". I can't understand why anyone would get turned on by getting or giving genuine pain, but a little playful "love tap" (or simulated whipping with a sex toy which wouldn't hurt a fly) might be erotically exciting. A guy dressed up as a cop could use little handcuffs on his woman (possibly fur-lined), saying something like, "You've been such a bad, bad girl." There is a company known as Liberator which makes sex furniture, some of which has attachment points where one might connect such cuffs. (Example: The Liberator Black Label Stage System, priced at $250.) If there is any doubt about how the products from Liberator are meant to be used, they offer an interactive Position Guide.
Speaking as an "incel" (involuntary celibate), I would greatly enjoy using such products with a female partner. Maybe that will happen before I die.
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