I recently found information, on the Internet, to the effect that only a small percentage of people who had found loving partners to whom they might get married were able to attribute those meetings to matchmaking help they had received from the people they had met at church ... let alone to specific singles groups which existed at their churches.
I recently sent a word-processed note to Grant Fishbook, pastor at Christ The King church, asking that he consider starting a group for singles, or that he help me to do so, inasmuch as I had very limited resources. I don't think that you should have to guess that he told me that that was not an area of concern for him, nor was it an area where I could reasonably hope for help from him.
It seems to me that if churches refuse to play an active role in helping people to find partners, they have no one to blame but themselves if Christians resort to things of which they disapprove! I want to ask, "What part of 'It Is Not Good For Man To Be Alone' do you not understand?"
Apparently, these so-called Christians think that they know better than God, since they do not think that they have a role to play in the process. Hence, one finds Christians turning to secular dating web sites like eHarmony.com and to dating services like Great Expectations, Events and Adventures, etc. This is particularly difficult for Christians who, like myself, lack a lot of money. I guess the message is that love is only for those who can afford it.
As one punk rock band sang, "Life sucks, and then you die."
But let a Christian even dare to suggest that he or she is actually interested in sex, and all hell breaks loose in the typical church. In fact, I fear that if the church I have begun to attend were to read some of my blog posts here on the blog for Get Hitched, they would quickly go from "kind and loving" to harsh and judgmental. That is a fear based on my most recent experience at another church.
I want to say, "Give me a break. Do you honestly expect me to believe that all of the children in this church arrived because the stork delivered them? You can make all of the disingenuous claims that you want to make, but it's self-evident that you are having sexual intercourse, because (the last time I checked), there was no virgin birth but the birth of Jesus Christ. For crying out loud, even Mary, the mother of Jesus, did NOT remain a virgin for the rest of her years on this earth.
No wonder Christians lack credibility in the eyes of many unbelievers!
Wednesday, November 27, 2013
Friday, November 15, 2013
Thoughts About Dating Coaches
Will Smith recently starred in a movie entitled Hitch. In it, the former Fresh Prince of Bel-Air played a dating coach who makes a living teaching men how to woo women. I think that the name of that movie is interesting in light of the fact that I've chosen to call my little group Get Hitched.
In reality, a lot of the dating coaches I've found online have been women, like Hayley Quinn (from the UK), Deanna Lorraine (who is from San Diego, and who theoretically must like quiche!), and others. After all, who knows better how to woo a woman than a woman? (Of course, Deanna has a coaching service for men AND for women, with a different web site for each. She also has a Wednesday night webcast talk show at 866-922-1188, and although you obviously can't hear the show if you aren't online between the hours of 8:00 and 9:00 p.m., that won't stop you from calling the show at that time to ask your questions. She conducts "dating bootcamps", which sounds to me as if it would be more fun than going to bootcamp in the military! This January, she'll have a bootcamp in San Diego, which is where she lives. Her bootcamps make her a fair amount of money, of course, especially when they are in exotic locations like Dubai.)
Hayley Quinn has my email address in her mailing list. She claimed, in her most recent newsletter to me, that her program "Attraction Loopholes" teaches "The hidden LOOPHOLES in female psychology that will have her falling in love with you regardless of what you look like, how much money you earn or how popular you are." Regardless of how old you are or how handicapped you may be? This I have to experience to believe it!
However, Hayley seems to have her own problems in terms of finding the "right guy" for herself, according to this article. In all fairness, the article ends with a postscript that states that Hayley is now in a committed relationship of her own.
Of course, given the fact that Hayley describes herself as a "female PUA" (pick-up artist), one might argue that some men seek to have relationships with women who are a bit less adept at picking up men just to have one-night stands. Also, according to this YouTube video, Hayley "swings both ways". The video is about her advice for guys who want to have "three-ways". (Three ways? I'd be lucky just to persuade a woman to have sex with me at all.)
If I'd had a dating coach of my own, I might now be married. But that was not the case, and I still have the same longings as I ever had. That's one of my main reasons for creating Get Hitched here in Bellingham. And interestingly enough, when I called Deanna last night in order to ask her advice for men with limited income who wanted to meet eligible women, she said that Meetup.com was a great place to meet women (and men), without spending much money.
To properly promote one's own singles group, however, would take a fair amount of money. But even the free business cards I got from VistaPrint are better than nothing in that regard. Until I can raise enough money, via dues and sponsorships and the like, the business cards will have to suffice.
In reality, a lot of the dating coaches I've found online have been women, like Hayley Quinn (from the UK), Deanna Lorraine (who is from San Diego, and who theoretically must like quiche!), and others. After all, who knows better how to woo a woman than a woman? (Of course, Deanna has a coaching service for men AND for women, with a different web site for each. She also has a Wednesday night webcast talk show at 866-922-1188, and although you obviously can't hear the show if you aren't online between the hours of 8:00 and 9:00 p.m., that won't stop you from calling the show at that time to ask your questions. She conducts "dating bootcamps", which sounds to me as if it would be more fun than going to bootcamp in the military! This January, she'll have a bootcamp in San Diego, which is where she lives. Her bootcamps make her a fair amount of money, of course, especially when they are in exotic locations like Dubai.)
Hayley Quinn has my email address in her mailing list. She claimed, in her most recent newsletter to me, that her program "Attraction Loopholes" teaches "The hidden LOOPHOLES in female psychology that will have her falling in love with you regardless of what you look like, how much money you earn or how popular you are." Regardless of how old you are or how handicapped you may be? This I have to experience to believe it!
However, Hayley seems to have her own problems in terms of finding the "right guy" for herself, according to this article. In all fairness, the article ends with a postscript that states that Hayley is now in a committed relationship of her own.
Of course, given the fact that Hayley describes herself as a "female PUA" (pick-up artist), one might argue that some men seek to have relationships with women who are a bit less adept at picking up men just to have one-night stands. Also, according to this YouTube video, Hayley "swings both ways". The video is about her advice for guys who want to have "three-ways". (Three ways? I'd be lucky just to persuade a woman to have sex with me at all.)
If I'd had a dating coach of my own, I might now be married. But that was not the case, and I still have the same longings as I ever had. That's one of my main reasons for creating Get Hitched here in Bellingham. And interestingly enough, when I called Deanna last night in order to ask her advice for men with limited income who wanted to meet eligible women, she said that Meetup.com was a great place to meet women (and men), without spending much money.
To properly promote one's own singles group, however, would take a fair amount of money. But even the free business cards I got from VistaPrint are better than nothing in that regard. Until I can raise enough money, via dues and sponsorships and the like, the business cards will have to suffice.
Saturday, November 9, 2013
The MInd: The Most Important Sex Organ
Erotic hypnosis sounds a bit strange to some people, especially people who know nothing about how to hypnotize people. But I've heard of hypnotism being used for all kinds of things, from help in sticking to an exercise regimen (or help in kicking a bad habit like smoking) to pain relief or reduction during surgery or childbirth. So I guess it shouldn't be any surprise that hypnotism can be used in order to enhance a person's sex life.
I think that some folks may be worried that if they are hypnotized, they will be coerced into having sexual relations they do not want to experience. If that were true, I think that would-be rapists would be rushing out to take courses in hypnosis.
Nevertheless, most people like the idea of experiencing orgasms. I saw a YouTube video in which a hypnotist ostensibly caused multiple women in the audience to have orgasms, in response to a "trigger word" which he would speak from the podium. (The word was "bam", but I think that that was just for dramatic effect; it could have been any word whatsoever, as long as the women were properly put into a "trance state".)
The Renegade Hypnotist Project claims that hypnosis is the secret to "atomic-powered sexuality".
Wikipedia has an article entitled Recreational Hypnosis, which it says is also called "erotic hypnosis". The Wikipedia article says that such hypnosis can do things like helping people to overcome apprehension about things like fellatio, and even helping women to "increase breast size" (believe it or not). And here I only thought that a woman's breast size could be increased via implants. Who knew?
Here in Bellingham, not far from the Sparks Museum and the Black Drop Coffeehouse, there's a place in a bank building called the Cascade Hypnosis Center. That seems like a good place to visit in order to discuss erotic hypnosis.
David Shade has written a book entitled The Secrets of Female Sexuality. I don't know if he teaches erotic hypnotism, but from the sounds of things he's said in some of his e-mail newsletters, he seems to do so. He talks about how it's possible to give orgasms to women simply by talking to them on the telephone. If so, that would seem to be a real benefit to couples who found themselves separated by distance (e.g., soldiers at war and their wives across the ocean).
Bam!!!
I think that some folks may be worried that if they are hypnotized, they will be coerced into having sexual relations they do not want to experience. If that were true, I think that would-be rapists would be rushing out to take courses in hypnosis.
Nevertheless, most people like the idea of experiencing orgasms. I saw a YouTube video in which a hypnotist ostensibly caused multiple women in the audience to have orgasms, in response to a "trigger word" which he would speak from the podium. (The word was "bam", but I think that that was just for dramatic effect; it could have been any word whatsoever, as long as the women were properly put into a "trance state".)
The Renegade Hypnotist Project claims that hypnosis is the secret to "atomic-powered sexuality".
Wikipedia has an article entitled Recreational Hypnosis, which it says is also called "erotic hypnosis". The Wikipedia article says that such hypnosis can do things like helping people to overcome apprehension about things like fellatio, and even helping women to "increase breast size" (believe it or not). And here I only thought that a woman's breast size could be increased via implants. Who knew?
Here in Bellingham, not far from the Sparks Museum and the Black Drop Coffeehouse, there's a place in a bank building called the Cascade Hypnosis Center. That seems like a good place to visit in order to discuss erotic hypnosis.
David Shade has written a book entitled The Secrets of Female Sexuality. I don't know if he teaches erotic hypnotism, but from the sounds of things he's said in some of his e-mail newsletters, he seems to do so. He talks about how it's possible to give orgasms to women simply by talking to them on the telephone. If so, that would seem to be a real benefit to couples who found themselves separated by distance (e.g., soldiers at war and their wives across the ocean).
Bam!!!
Monday, November 4, 2013
Sexy Costumes for All Occasions
Fantasy can play a healthy role in keeping a couple's love life from getting stale. David Shade, the author of a book about Female Sexuality, has affirmed this in an email newsletter he sends to me regularly. Costumes can play a big part in the role-playing games that enable couples to spice up their love lives. Anytime Costumes sells costumes that allow women to dress up as nurses, schoolgirls, cowgirls, cops, cave women, pirate wenches, Playboy bunnies, Indian princesses, saloon girls and more. For their sexy Halloween costumes, click here.
SexyCostumes.com is another source of such costumes. Anyone who ever saw Carrie Fisher dancing around in front of Jabba the Hut in one of the Star Wars movie might conceivably want to see his woman wearing the Sexy Princess Leia slave costume sold by the company. (One of the creepiest aspects of that part of Star Wars was the one in which Jabba's big tongue stuck out and licked Princess Leia. But if it was your tongue, it wouldn't be creepy; maybe it would even be kinky!)
Most of the sites selling sexy costumes seem to focuse primarily on women, but of course, men can also dress up as cops, cowboys, etc. Just ask The Village People (who unfortunately seem to have been gay).
BDSM is the abbreviation for "bondage, dominance and sadomasochism". I can't understand why anyone would get turned on by getting or giving genuine pain, but a little playful "love tap" (or simulated whipping with a sex toy which wouldn't hurt a fly) might be erotically exciting. A guy dressed up as a cop could use little handcuffs on his woman (possibly fur-lined), saying something like, "You've been such a bad, bad girl." There is a company known as Liberator which makes sex furniture, some of which has attachment points where one might connect such cuffs. (Example: The Liberator Black Label Stage System, priced at $250.) If there is any doubt about how the products from Liberator are meant to be used, they offer an interactive Position Guide.
Speaking as an "incel" (involuntary celibate), I would greatly enjoy using such products with a female partner. Maybe that will happen before I die.
SexyCostumes.com is another source of such costumes. Anyone who ever saw Carrie Fisher dancing around in front of Jabba the Hut in one of the Star Wars movie might conceivably want to see his woman wearing the Sexy Princess Leia slave costume sold by the company. (One of the creepiest aspects of that part of Star Wars was the one in which Jabba's big tongue stuck out and licked Princess Leia. But if it was your tongue, it wouldn't be creepy; maybe it would even be kinky!)
Most of the sites selling sexy costumes seem to focuse primarily on women, but of course, men can also dress up as cops, cowboys, etc. Just ask The Village People (who unfortunately seem to have been gay).
BDSM is the abbreviation for "bondage, dominance and sadomasochism". I can't understand why anyone would get turned on by getting or giving genuine pain, but a little playful "love tap" (or simulated whipping with a sex toy which wouldn't hurt a fly) might be erotically exciting. A guy dressed up as a cop could use little handcuffs on his woman (possibly fur-lined), saying something like, "You've been such a bad, bad girl." There is a company known as Liberator which makes sex furniture, some of which has attachment points where one might connect such cuffs. (Example: The Liberator Black Label Stage System, priced at $250.) If there is any doubt about how the products from Liberator are meant to be used, they offer an interactive Position Guide.
Speaking as an "incel" (involuntary celibate), I would greatly enjoy using such products with a female partner. Maybe that will happen before I die.
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